Does it get better? or do we just get used to it?

Truthfully people go around living their lives thinking that maybe someday it’ll get better or someday everything that was once a problem would go away but I don’t know if it’s really true there’s some people who life has been shitty every since that one mistake they made or that one thing that happened to them that they can’t change. They say things get better but I think you just get used to it and continue on with it until you’ve learn to accept it.

When something bad happens I think we blame ourselves for it but we still can’t change it because it has already happened, so when things happen that’s really bad it happened the only thing left to do is get over it.

I mean for some people things turn around things get better,things fall back into place but does that mean they are over it? no ! they learn to accept it they get used to it.

So I ask myself again does it get better? or do we just get used to it ? The world may never know, but if I had to chose one honestly i’d say we just get used to it.

What changes is us, not that we get used to it, but that our skills/ability to deal with the challenges life sends our way improves. … So over time this incremental increasing of our skills at living and problem solving can get us to a place where life does feel easier.