Stop settling for 2nd Best

TesiSpeaks
2 min readJun 30, 2024

Stop settling for second place you deserve better, you deserve more.

you’re not a backup plan so stop letting people treat you like you’re one. you are beautiful.

you shouldn’t be the person they go to when they’re bored, or when they need you, find someone who’s always going to put you first and never change. Make yourself your number one priority. Stop being available all the time.

If someone wants to leave, let them. Don’t hold on to a toxic relationship. Stop being only a “cry shoulder”. Let them call you. You can’t blame this person. You just can’t. However, you blame yourself because you believe that you lack something to become the only option, no matter how hard you try. You are always available, and you think that this is the only way to get their attention and to be needed.

Your attention is constantly taken for granted because you do not know how to say “no.” In addition, you constantly react to everything with your standard phrase, “Everything is okay. I understand you.” Sometimes, you want to be harsh and stop being second choice in a relationship, but you cannot. It resembles a vicious circle.

start living …You should go on with your life. When you plunge into the relationship with a person you like, everything takes a back seat. You forget absolutely about all interests, hobbies

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TesiSpeaks

Storyteller in this world// Writer// sucker for fiction books and movies