Virginity Disaster

(Becoming someone)

So, we all have these thoughts of wanting our first time to be special, most of us are stuck thinking maybe we should wait until marriage but also some of us are curious on just getting it out the way. Strange thing about life is that 90% of our first times wasn’t what we thought at all. Infact a lot of our first times were awful. We definitely over prepared ourselves as much as we could by watching things that never actually portrayed truthfulness.

With that I mean some of us took sex-ed classes in high school but truthfully a mass majority of us had intercourse by 8th grade and some even by 9th. That still doesn’t change the fact that a lot of our first times were awful. Some got pregnant, some struggled to figure out the correct way to apply a condom, some expected to be shaved more in that area, some even wanted a candle lit hotel room with dinner or even to be married. The strange thing about life is that those of who had lost their virginity the first time wasn’t really ever planned. or if it was planned i can assure you it wasn’t exactly what to be expected or something went completely wrong during that time.

But I can also say there's about a good 10% of those who waited until they were educated enough before they began touching anything. with that being said that ten percent that waited and was truthful with the other party about…