Uncomfortable Truths That We All Need To Accept.

Chyann
2 min readJul 18, 2020

Quitting is for winners

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners.

< Knowing when to quit, change directions, leave a toxic situation,demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.

don’t quit because it’s hard< Quit because it sucks!!

Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all

It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job, it’s not a new completed goal, and it’s not a new car.

< Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

Taking no risk is the biggest risk

You have to risk failure to succeed

You have to risk rejection to be accepted.

You have to risk heartbreak to love.

< if you’re always avoiding risk you’re risking missing out on life.

If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure , they’ll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they rather do.

Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.

Let them go.<Move On!! AND DO BETTER.

Closure is your choice.

Closure isn’t an apology, or justice or answers.

That’s insecurity

If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn’t something they can give you

Closure is moving on. < Closure is your choice.

Call yourself out

The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their own BULLSHIT, their own TOXIC TRAITS and their own MISTAKES.

you have to call yourself out.

calling yourself out means you care more about your future, your progress and your happiness, than just protecting your ego.

Chyann

Storyteller in this world// Writer// sucker for fiction books and movies